Sorry guys - it's been one of those weeks. But here's another oldie but goodie for you.
Years ago when I was in school I had these two friends Adam and Cory. They were the kind of white guys I hate now...loved hip hop and thought that made them "down", called each other "bro", you know the type. I really only tolerated them because Adam was kinda cute.
Anyway, these dudes were responsible for the only two experiences I’ve ever had with white guys - which is amazing if you consider that I grew up in London Ontario. One was the fabulous Bobby who kissed me for the first time in his parents' bathroom next to the Elvis clock and with whom I got down 'n dirty in his jeep on the grounds of Brescia College - where the nuns live in London.
I know - I was scandalous.
Anyway, the other we'll call JP. And JP was, well, straight up whiter than the whitest white man. Let’s take a look:
Anyway, these dudes were responsible for the only two experiences I’ve ever had with white guys - which is amazing if you consider that I grew up in London Ontario. One was the fabulous Bobby who kissed me for the first time in his parents' bathroom next to the Elvis clock and with whom I got down 'n dirty in his jeep on the grounds of Brescia College - where the nuns live in London.
I know - I was scandalous.
Anyway, the other we'll call JP. And JP was, well, straight up whiter than the whitest white man. Let’s take a look:
He was from PEI
He played hockey
He had some kind of mullet
But ole JP had two things going for him: he was adorable and he was riding my jock hard. So yeah I let him take me out a couple of times and yes I went home with him one night.
We lay on his bed and it was lovely. Oh, so lovely. Until JP had um, an equipment malfunction?
"Poor thing" I thought. Because as embarrassed as I was, I knew he had to be absolutely mortified. "I’m sorry!" he nearly sobbed. "I’m so sorry!" "It’s okay" I murmured encouragingly. I really felt bad for him. Until this:
"I’m so upset! I waited my whole life to be with a black girl and here you are and look!"(gesturing southward)
Um, yeah. so not only have you wasted my time, and left me with blue "balls", but you thought it was a good idea to tell me I’m the living manifestation of some massa-mammy fantasy you've been harbouring?!?
"Poor thing" I thought. Because as embarrassed as I was, I knew he had to be absolutely mortified. "I’m sorry!" he nearly sobbed. "I’m so sorry!" "It’s okay" I murmured encouragingly. I really felt bad for him. Until this:
"I’m so upset! I waited my whole life to be with a black girl and here you are and look!"(gesturing southward)
Um, yeah. so not only have you wasted my time, and left me with blue "balls", but you thought it was a good idea to tell me I’m the living manifestation of some massa-mammy fantasy you've been harbouring?!?
I was not impressed. But not wanting to kick a "man" when he's down (literally), I calmly got up and left, not letting on just how much I wanted to smack his pasty face.
but then
but THEN
but then he never called me!
but then
but THEN
but then he never called me!
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Annoyed · 791 weeks ago
maxfab 81p · 791 weeks ago
But FYI this is an old post...hence the title "A Throwback Post".
CHeeKZ Money · 791 weeks ago
Is that you?
lmao.
maxfab 81p · 791 weeks ago
Skye Blue · 791 weeks ago
Furthermore, although I realize everybody has a right to their preferences - in spite of how 'old' some people may think they are - I think for practical reasons (i.e. your coochy's sake) you should give white guys another shot. I mean, living in the T-dot like we do, it'd be a lot easier to fill your 'sugar bowl' to the point of overflow if you became an equal opportunity lover - right?
I'm just sayin'
maxfab 81p · 791 weeks ago
Re: giving white guys another go, I did. This post was written about 7 years ago and I have since gone back for round three. I'm going to summarize the experience in two words: flashback and swindle.
Sam Sharpe · 791 weeks ago
always flying the flag for inter racial and cross cultural love....
oh, and I don't get it max, what black and white thing is mr/ms. annoyed talking about?
are you always banging on about black and white things?
maxfab 81p · 791 weeks ago
anon · 791 weeks ago
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O2qATFFWYWM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfJt0CH3CrQ
Flo King · 791 weeks ago
Tunde · 790 weeks ago
Nope · 789 weeks ago
How do you know he had a "massa-mammy fantasy"? Maybe he really wanted to just be with a black girl.
And this is the reason you won't date white guys? Because of adolescent (I'm assuming) experiences? What about white men? You know, the one's that don't have 'massa-mammy fantasies'? What's the real reason?